Love and Sex, Outside the Lines: an Advise Column

on Alternative Relationships

Need advice on navigating  relationships outside the mainstream?  Send your questions to  This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it  .  Each week, Deanna and John will respond to select questions that represent common issues.  Deanna and John are also available for relationship coaching and teach a wide variety of classes at the Sharma Center. Feel free to contact us at This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it or call 206-898-5876 for more info.

Deanna and John are the Executive Directors of the Sharma center. They have been in a  polyamorous relationship and have been active in the alternative communities for that last 10 years. They are co-founders of The Sharma Center and are commited that  people get the  resources they need to create the relationships they want.